The love we have for our children that we often tend to forget that blind us and make them happy in the long run. It is very common these days that parents, especially those of certain economic resources, we build an imaginary world out of a fairy from Walt Disney, and isolating them from reality.
When sooner or later the story ends, our children are facing an unfamiliar world, who do not understand, full of traps and dead ends who can not overcome, and the consequences are worse than they wanted to avoid.
recently the image of a father with tears in her eyes the whole world was deeply moved. Pele, the soccer idol recent times, who unlike other occasions, gave a press conference of the saddest and most painful of his life: his son, Edson, 35, was arrested along with 50 others in the city of Santos-Brazil.The Pele's son was charged with drug conspiracy and may be sentenced to 15 years in prison. With tears in his eyes, former Brazilian footballer admitted publicly that his son was involved in a gang of cocaine traffickers arrested by police.
Pele told the media: "like any parent, it is sad to see your son involved in groups like that and be arrested, but he will have to suffer the consequences. " He added, "unfortunately, I probably was too busy and I did not realize.
is unfortunate, because I've always fought against drugs and did not notice what was happening in my own home. Pelé is a global character as an athlete admirable and honest man who never lost his humility as other sports figures. However, it is sad that a good man and talented as is 'distracted' in their play more important: the education of their children.
Pele's story is not an isolated event. Unfortunately it is the lives of hundreds of parents in these times caught in an agenda saturated with work and commitments outside the home. Compensate parents who neglect their children with material goods. The
enroll in the best schools, surrounded by luxury and comfort and with that I think they did their job as parents, when all they have done is to make children know hunger and throw what they dislike. Children
tyrants, unbearable and arrogant little monsters who suffer and cause suffering to their peers because since childhood have gotten away with it. Boys who think they feel cold or hot air is a matter of conditioning, which have felt the fatigue that limited walking several blocks because they found parking in front of the club, boys who think the job of parents is to sign checks Paraque they have everything they crave.
What possibilities do our children become men and women of good if the parents give them everything and will not educate them? What children we are training our attitude if we show that money is the most important thing in life?
Confucius said, "Educate your children with a little hungry and a little cold." Proverbs says "Discipline your children." How well do parents their children when they put that maxim so simple in practice. And how much damage they do to put them all in silver platter.
There are many realities that as parents we would disappear; elsufrimiento of children, excessive sweating, stress, and the carenciaseconómicas. However, these realities may not make them happy for now, but eventually they can make men and women as well.
Hopefully more parents is a concern to learn where to walk their children. They will not get to pass that when time should have read: "I was too busy and I did not realize '
When sooner or later the story ends, our children are facing an unfamiliar world, who do not understand, full of traps and dead ends who can not overcome, and the consequences are worse than they wanted to avoid.
recently the image of a father with tears in her eyes the whole world was deeply moved. Pele, the soccer idol recent times, who unlike other occasions, gave a press conference of the saddest and most painful of his life: his son, Edson, 35, was arrested along with 50 others in the city of Santos-Brazil.The Pele's son was charged with drug conspiracy and may be sentenced to 15 years in prison. With tears in his eyes, former Brazilian footballer admitted publicly that his son was involved in a gang of cocaine traffickers arrested by police.
Pele told the media: "like any parent, it is sad to see your son involved in groups like that and be arrested, but he will have to suffer the consequences. " He added, "unfortunately, I probably was too busy and I did not realize.
is unfortunate, because I've always fought against drugs and did not notice what was happening in my own home. Pelé is a global character as an athlete admirable and honest man who never lost his humility as other sports figures. However, it is sad that a good man and talented as is 'distracted' in their play more important: the education of their children.
Pele's story is not an isolated event. Unfortunately it is the lives of hundreds of parents in these times caught in an agenda saturated with work and commitments outside the home. Compensate parents who neglect their children with material goods. The
enroll in the best schools, surrounded by luxury and comfort and with that I think they did their job as parents, when all they have done is to make children know hunger and throw what they dislike. Children
tyrants, unbearable and arrogant little monsters who suffer and cause suffering to their peers because since childhood have gotten away with it. Boys who think they feel cold or hot air is a matter of conditioning, which have felt the fatigue that limited walking several blocks because they found parking in front of the club, boys who think the job of parents is to sign checks Paraque they have everything they crave.
What possibilities do our children become men and women of good if the parents give them everything and will not educate them? What children we are training our attitude if we show that money is the most important thing in life?
Confucius said, "Educate your children with a little hungry and a little cold." Proverbs says "Discipline your children." How well do parents their children when they put that maxim so simple in practice. And how much damage they do to put them all in silver platter.
There are many realities that as parents we would disappear; elsufrimiento of children, excessive sweating, stress, and the carenciaseconómicas. However, these realities may not make them happy for now, but eventually they can make men and women as well.
Hopefully more parents is a concern to learn where to walk their children. They will not get to pass that when time should have read: "I was too busy and I did not realize '
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